I don't know the language you write so I don't know if you will understand this reply. I think you are asking how to set up a POP3 account so that emails are deleted from the server when you have downloaded them. If so the answer is under Account Settings > [account name] > Server Settings (that's in the English version of Thunderbird, obviously).

I want the emails are deleted from the server only when I remove them from the recycle bin in the application.

OK I understand now. I don't think that option exists within Thunderbird. Maybe someone else in the forum can help.